Many couples say "I've never been married before" I don't know what happens. It's easy! The marriage ceremony can be divided into the following sections and can appear in any order. Remember these can be added to, rearranged or deleted to suit. For the marriage to be legal, there must be a consent to marriage (the I do's), vows and the Monitum (where the Celebrant is required to identify themselves and state that they are authorised to solemnise the marriage and remind those present of the legal definition of marriage). Remember, apart from these three legal considerations, the remaining elements are up to you. This is your ceremony and as you have opted for a marriage celebrant wedding you are free to be as creative as you wish!


  • Guests gather (good to get them all there 15 - 20 minutes before the brides arrival)
  • Pre-ceremonial music (sets the mood)
  • Groom and groomsmen in place
  • Processional music and entrance of bridal party
  • Welcome to those attending
  • Thanks to parents/parents-in-law and other family members
  • Acknowledgment of absent or deceased family members and friends
  • Giving away/presentation of the bride
  • Brief history and highlights of your life together
  • Reading
  • Monitum: Statement by celebrant
  •  The asking - the "I do" part.
  • Vows - your promises to one another
  • Exchange of rings
  • Declaration of marriage
  • The Kiss - usually the grand finale!
  • Signing of register and certificates by Bride, Groom and two witnesses (this usually takes a few minutes so consider playing music and/or serving drinks)
  • Presentation of marriage certificate
  • Introduction of married couple/husband and wife
  • Walking down the aisle.
  • Group photo